Monday, August 16, 2010

If you want to be happy

"  If you want to be happy,
     Begin where you are,
Don't wait for some rapture
     That's future and far.
Begin to be joyous, begin to be glad
     And soon you'll forget.
That you were ever were sad."  

I went to the McCloud Post Office on Saturday morning to get my mails. I saw a smiling face of an elderly man sitting on a car parked in front of the post office.  I see this man every morning when I go to work there during the week days.  He usually comes all by himself and driving his own car to get his mails.  But on this particular day, he was with two ladies, one driving the car and the other seated at the back seat.  Since we know each other by face I went nearer to say hi and greet them.  Bursting with joy, the man said to me, these are my daughters, they came to visit me.  Then I said, "   Oh, I am so happy for you, have a nice day!"    For me, moments like this are unique and rare in life.  My joy in my job today is that each morning I meet different kinds of people who live in this little old mill town. Most often I will receive a compliment like, "  This place smells so neat and clean!"   or "  You are doing a great job!"    And my heart will sing a song of joy and gratitude to God and I will celebrate another day of having done God's most perfect will, to be the best I can be as His hands and feet in the world. Happiness is being attuned to what is true, good and beautiful in life as gifts of God, the giver of life and the designer of all creation.  One needs eyes to see, ears to hear, soul to perceive the innumerable sparkles of joys that abound in the here and now.
Yesterday, I went with a group of friends for a sailing trip at Lake Almanor.  While my friends were sharing things about their family life, I took time to get some photos and to contemplate.  My memory brought me to that scene in the gospel when Jesus walked along the shore of the Sea of Galilee and called his first disciples.  He said, "  Come, follow me"  .  They left everything and followed Him.  And the found the real joy they were seeking for in life.  I have that same experience many many years ago when I was still a college student and I was watching the beautiful sunset at Manila Bay, Philippines.  I heard the same call and began my journey of discipleship.  When we were going home from that sailing trip, while we were driving home in the darkness of the night, I was telling my friend, Lynn E., that lake reminded me of stories in the gospel of Jesus making a trip with his disciples to the lake.  They too were busy and tired after doing the Father's business of spreading the good news.  They need to relax and be by themselves to sail, to rest, to pray.  And after they got rejuvenated they went on to spread the good news to other towns and villages. These days I am learning to be gentle with myself and to relish the simple joys of daily life as I continue to seek the face of God in the moments of each new day.  I work to earn my living and rest, relax and pray to balance my life.  I have always the greatest joy to spend quality time with my wife Marl on a daily basis as we abide to our motto:  "  Love will always find a way."  in terms of communication and other important foundations of married life.  In my apartment, I have a door post which says, "  It is better to give than to receive"   .  I keep giving myself in many ways of service to others and also treasure what life gives to me every day.  I always tell my wife, let us be contented with what we have, everything comes from God as blessings!



"  The way to be happy is to make others happy.
Helping others is the secret of all success ---
in business, in the arts and in the home."  

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